One thing I know very personally is pediatric medicine. We have 4 children ages 3-9 (with another on
the way!). No world record, but we know
babies, toddlers, and pre-teens. (and
looking forward to the teen years when the child suddenly knows more than mom
and dad!)
We have experienced the gamut of pediatric problems…
allergies and spitting up, neurologic issues affecting school performance,
bronchitis (in a 2 day old!), tummy and headaches, urinary tract infections,
colds, strep throat, flu, chicken pox, fifths disease, random vomiting, potty
training challenges, warts, bad cases of poison ivy (including the private
parts!), eczema…what else? I think we
have seen and experienced all the common problems (not to mention all the
emotional struggles).
We have never visited a pediatrician, however, as we have
been able to identify the problem, including the root cause, and apply a
treatment (naturally) that effectively resolved the symptoms.
The closest to a label we have experienced was our school
mentioning the name dyslexia. But, when
brought to my attention, I devised a neurological processing treatment that resolved
the symptoms, and there hasn’t been any mention of it since.
I have thought about creating a website that is specific to
pediatric needs…but first, you tell me if this would be of benefit to you and
your kids.
Gates has been going back and forth with potty training…he’s
got it…oops, he’s not even close… He also
has some separation anxiety (mom of course), anger and aggressiveness (hurting)
his twin sister, and some feeling sad or low self esteem when people won’t
listen to him (good luck with 3 sisters!).
Our main concern was helping him master the potty training,
but I want to consider all symptoms, challenges, and difficulties when doing an
assessment.
Now, with no real experience with pediatricians, but
knowledge of medical protocols…what would your local pediatrician offer? Stool softener? Antidepressant? Counseling?
A wish of good luck?
Here’s what we did.
Using what is called indirect muscle testing, (using a third party), we
asked his nervous system and energetic system what it needs. We found a primary need in the part of the
brain called the Amygdala, which is part of the limbic or emotional brain, plus
the water element in eastern medicine.
Oh great, that’s very useful!!! (Obviously we translate into practical
advice!)
That allows us to assess stressors…from a physical level, we
discovered a couple immune challenges, including corn and peanuts, and heavy
metals…a stress challenge (noradrenaline)…and an organ challenge (gall
bladder). Our process also allows us to
assess remedies…again on the physical level… cilantro for heavy metals, probiotics
and enzymes for food sensitivities (along with reducing intake), sage for
stress, and choline for gall bladder.
That might seem like a lot for a little kid (he’s 3), but it
will most likely mean a few droppers of each tincture mixed into one bottle for
one dose per day, and an open capsule of enzymes in his oatmeal or yogurt. Our kids eat the probiotics straight up
because they have chickory root in them, which tastes like sugar. We certainly understand that it has to be
easy or it just won’t happen!
Moving to brain health, we know that this area of the brain
is associated with fear, so we ask about the fear. In his case, the fear is losing mom’s
nurturing. He wants to be a “big boy”
but is conflicted with the comforts of mom’s closeness. This is a classic values conflict…I want this
(growing up) but I also want that too (nurturing from mom). As adults, we know how a mother-son
relationship evolves, and that a mother at 95 years old would give anything to
a son of 70. It never ends, it just changes.
Gates doesn’t know that though…he sees a scary world, and if
mom doesn’t stay in her protective role, he is a goner! (to be more accurate, part of him sees it
this way…another part is hungry to take on more). But what a blessing to know his internal
struggle and help him soothe his fears.
Moving to energetic needs…the water element has to do with
developing an ability to listen to internal cues and make a choice…safely and
beneficially. As this skill develops, a
parent’s role and goal is reassurance. “You
can do this,” along with a careful watch, is the key to developing this
internal guidance system that makes such an impact on his ability to be
successful and handle failure in a positive way.
Knowing his internal development process allows us to
respond exactly to his current needs.
His potty failures are a clinging to mother protection…he simply needs
reassurance of the choices that stand in front of him. The choice for increasing independence is
always scary. Letting him know that he can
do this may be all it takes. We can
reinforce with building value into making that choice…things he sees his big
sisters do and have fun with…play dates, sleep overs, more choices, more
options. We can focus his little brain
on the positives of a difficult choice.
We also have a physical treatment plan to soothe his energy
system…acupressure points to stimulate that make the transition all that much
easier, along with words to comfort, and natural medicine to increase his health
and constitution.
I honestly don’t know how parents are parenting with-OUT
this advantage! Parenting is a
challenge…and being a kid is a challenge…this just makes it soooo much easier
on both ends.
So…would this be of value to you as a parent? Would it be helpful to know what your child’s
internal fears are (or other emotional challenges), and have a game plan to
soothe them…to know what the physical needs are to help your child stay strong
and healthy in a toxic and stressful world…to know what the neurological needs
are to help develop a resilient brain??
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